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Trevor Dunbar

Why Christianity Isn’t the Way to Jesus—And Never Was

June 09, 20253 min read

Understanding the Kingdom as a Realm, Not a Religion

For a long time, the words Christian and follower of Jesus have been treated like they mean the same thing. But they don’t. And they never did.

If you’re feeling tension in your faith—if something about the system doesn’t sit right with your spirit—you’re not crazy. You’re not backsliding. You’re waking up.

Let’s make it simple.

Christianity Was Man-Made. The Kingdom Was God’s Plan From The Beginning.

Christianity as a religion didn’t come from Jesus. It came after Him—built by people trying to organize, systematize, and control what He made simple: walking with the Father, empowered by the Spirit, and living from identity.

Religion always needs a structure.

The Kingdom is a realm.

A living, present, powerful dimension of authority, freedom, and sonship.

Why It’s Hard for Christians to See This

For centuries, faith in Jesus has been wrapped in Christianity. So tightly, in fact, that many believe leaving Christianity means leaving God.

But Jesus didn’t start Christianity.

He exposed religion.

He revealed the Kingdom.

“Religion hijacked your purpose, power, and passion. But the Kingdom invites you to take it all back.” — The Good Cult

It’s hard to untangle from something that’s been your identity. But the truth is: Christianity, from its very beginning, was a substitute. A safe, cultural counterfeit that replaced Kingdom power with performance, control, and guilt.

What’s the Difference?

Christianity says:

  • Go to church.

  • Follow the rules.

  • Submit to leadership.

  • Do more to be approved.

The Kingdom says:

  • You are a son.

  • You carry authority.

  • The Spirit lives in you.

  • Walk with the Father. Every day.

Christianity builds churches.

The Kingdom builds people.

It’s Not About Being “Anti-Church”

This isn’t rebellion. It’s realignment.

If Jesus came to reveal the Kingdom and expose religion—why would we try to follow Him by joining a religion He never endorsed?

It’s not about throwing stones. It’s about coming home.

To the Father.

To Jesus.

To the power of the Holy Spirit—alive in you, not confined to a stage or a system.

“You weren’t created to strive for approval. You were made to walk in freedom, to know you are deeply loved as a son or daughter of God.” — The Good Cult

What Repentance Really Means

Repentance isn’t about trying harder.

It’s about changing how you think.

It’s leaving behind:

  • Shame-based religion

  • External performance

  • A spiritual identity outsourced to someone else

And returning to:

  • Direct relationship with God

  • The reality of His Kingdom

  • Life led by presence, not pressure

You’re not here to be a good church member.

You’re here to be a carrier of the Kingdom.

The Invitation

If this resonates—if you’ve felt like something’s off with the system but didn’t have the words for it—this is your confirmation.

You’re not here to fit in.

You’re here to rise.

Join us in The Outlier’s Way.

It’s not a new system. It’s a way of life—rooted in identity, purpose, and presence.

We’re building real community for those who are done playing church and ready to walk in the realm of the Kingdom.

👉 Join The Outlier’s Way — and reclaim the life you were actually made for.

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Trevor Dunbar

Helping Outliers Rebuild Their Life with God—Not the System. Author | Father of 5 | The guy you want at the table when the storm hits. Co-founder of The Outlier Brand | Speaker | Mentor to Truth Seekers

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